Sunday, December 30, 2007

Sugar Cookies, Christmas Eve

So this is a first for me.
We made sugar cookies for Christmas. Cookies shaped like Christmas trees and angels and gingerbread and stars. NOT! We made Christmas dolphins, honus, suns, butterflies, and sugar cookie fish. This is Hawai'i, not the continent. So yummy whatever the shape.


Super cute Celeste decorating. She was there with me from the beginning. Mixing, rolling, cookie cutting, baking, and frosting. She's a little artist in bloom so it was fun to see how precise she is even when decorating cookies.





Carol and Camille. Two tweens in a pod. Together since the 2nd grade and like the rest of us, loving the sugar!


Tevita O. Ka'ili, PhD

You know how in the introduction part of this blog, I wrote that I am starting from the beginning of our marriage? Yeah, well, I'm skipping ahead to the present for a little while.

December of 2007 has been THE GREATEST month of this year. There are tons and tons of fun and exciting things that happened. Too busy living the excitement, no time to blog. So gear up for a good read.

First and foremost

Tevita defended his dissertation on December 10th and has been awarded a PhD.

Photos of his defense:




It went very well. After the defense, Mimi Kahn, the Chair of his committee sent an email to the department stating that it was a "stellar" defense and an "excellent" dissertation.

Tevita worked long and hard for this. After seven years of grueling work at the University of Washington, five of which I vicariously experienced, he is all done. So proud of him.

After leaving Seattle, he went to Utah to spend time with Grandpa and the rest of the Ka'ili clan.

Grandpa Tonga

Grandpa Tonga is going to be 95 next year. Tevita moved from Tonga to Salt Lake City when he was just a boy and was raised by this man and his wife, the late 'Ana Malohifo'ou.

After his PhD was finalized, Ti flew to Salt Lake City and went straight to Grandpa's house.

Grandpa Malohifo'ou was and is a remarkable influence on my husband.

In the "Acknowledgements" section of his dissertation, Ti had this to say about his Grandfather:

"Tonga Poteki Malohifo'ou, taught me the invaluable lessons of endurance and persistence as he planted the seed to pursue a Ph.D. He is my hero and my
kindred spirit, I am who I am today because of him."


Ka'ilis in Logan

Tevita spent time with his family in Logan and had a ball. He came back with really fun stories.

Here are a few pictures of Ti at a party his family threw for him. Thank you to Ti's family for the cooking, the cake, and the support. They sang Congratulations Dr. Ka'ili to the tune of Happy Birthday. Super cute.





Friday, December 21, 2007

The Hokulea


In October of 2003, I sailed on the Hokulea. We went from O'ahu to Molokai. Ti went in 2000. It was a hard journey but quite thrilling and certainly humbling. Interesting though that when I think of the Hokulea, my "ride" across that part of the pacific doesn't come to mind at first. Actually, I think of Eddie Aikau.



Last year, I was working at the local hospital here on the North Shore of O'ahu and we were in the middle of a meeting when I heard someone ask, "What does that mean, 'Eddie would go'?" She was referring to a bumper sticker that is very common on the islands. . . I also had one on my truck when I lived in Utah. Now, I could understand this question if the asker was new to the community or had never been to Hawai'i but she was neither. (Already triggered by that). But what stunned me was that the person she asked had lived in Hawaii on the North Shore for about 15 years, was a self proclaimed surfer girl, and told a completely completely COMPLETELY distorted narrative of who he was and why he is revered. She said, "He was a surfer who would go and surf any wave no matter how high." OK, it's one thing to not know the answer to a question and acknowledge it but it's another to make up history and tell it as if it were true! In all fairness, there is a little myth out there saying that Mark Foo once looked at some huge waves and muttered "Eddie would go", but that was not how this chick answered. So for the record, this is why I kept the bumper sticker of "Eddie Would Go" on the truck I bought from my sister and her husband.

Eddie was a lifeguard on the North Shore who went to great and sometimes dangerous lengths to save lives in the sometimes daunting waves of the ocean. . . He would go out to save a life no matter the size of the wave. Thus, Eddie was a hero because Eddie would go. That alone is awesome. Reminds me of the scripture John 15:13. Look it up!

The night after my trip on the Hokulea, I heard a slightly different take on the saying. Master Voyager and personal friend of Eddie Aikau, Nainoa Thompson, told the story of being with Eddie on the Hokulea when it capsized at sea. It was apparent during his talk, that after almost 30 years, the experience was still quite devastating. In 1978, the Hokulea capsized when it was in its' first leg of the trip from Hawai'i to Tahiti. It hadn't left Hawaiian waters yet. Eddie wanted to get help for his friends and fellow voyagers, so he paddled off on his surfboard toward land. He was never seen again.

For the lives that he saved and the life that he gave, Eddie would always go.

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

A Long Time Coming

After six years of friendship, Ti and I were married five years ago. Almost to the date! (Dec. 27, 2002).



This is one of our engagement photos. Funny story about it: I have a fabulously talented friend, Amy, who had a photographer acquaintance that took our pictures. When he first sent me the photos he let me know how he went ahead and did me a favor without my even having to ask. He photoshopped the beauty mark on my chin OUT of the picture! Totally offended!!! Especially since I was as certain then as I am now that my beauty mark adds a unique quality to my look. Needless to say, we did not use him for our wedding. . . oh, and Amy photoshopped it back in!!

My other favorite story about this photo is that my soon-to-be sister-in-law called right after she saw it to let me know that my nose looks huge. ok, that STILL makes me giggle. Some might find that more offensive than the beauty mark issue, but not me. I'm still put off by that photographer!


Like the introduction says, we have moved three times and lived in three different places during our time together. And I would not have our marriage any other way. Ti has taken me on adventure after adventure always with foresight and always putting our family first!

So stay tuned for more posts and thanks for visiting!